Traveling with a Toddler: The Good, The Bad & The Wipe-Outs

A smiling woman and a toddler travelling on a train, illuminated by sunlight as the child excitedly touches the window

Let’s just say this: traveling with toddlers is not for the faint of heart. I’ve done it more times than I can count—as a mom of three boys under eight, I’ve seen it all. From sweet moments cuddling on a plane to public meltdowns in airport security lines. (Yes, that was us. No, I don’t want to talk about it.)

So if you’re packing bags and wondering, “Should we really do this?”—this post is for you.

Here’s what to expect when traveling with a toddler, what actually helps, and a few survival tips I wish someone had told me earlier.

The Good: Snuggles, Giggles & Seeing the World Through Their Eyes

Three children sit at an airport window, watching planes. A young girl in red reaches towards a plane, while an older boy gently holds a toddler.

Not gonna lie—toddlers make travel magical in their own chaotic way.

  • A leaf on the sidewalk? Treasure.
  • A new hotel bed? Playground.
  • Airplane snacks? The best day of their life.

Everything is fresh and exciting to them, and watching your toddler light up over little things reminds you why you booked the trip in the first place.

Plus, they’ll actually sit on your lap and cuddle (which teens definitely won’t do).

The Bad: Tantrums, Schedules, and SO. MANY. SNACKS.

A mother gently kisses a crying toddler on the forehead, conveying comfort and love

Okay, let’s talk reality.

  • Delayed nap = meltdown
  • Missed snack = meltdown
  • Too many snacks =… another meltdown

Toddlers are creatures of routine, and travel shakes up everything they know. Expect some pushback. Expect some tears (yours and theirs). And definitely expect to carry way more stuff than seems reasonable for someone under 3 feet tall.

Real talk: We once had to buy a second stroller on a trip because someone (me) thought our 2-year-old would “walk more now.” Rookie move.

The Wipe-Outs: When Plans Go Sideways

A toddler in a striped sweater cries while leaning out of an open red car window.

Here’s the thing: something will go wrong.

  • A blowout at takeoff? Been there.
  • Toddler suddenly terrified of elevators? Yep.
  • Sippy cup leaks all over your only outfit? Of course.

It’s frustrating in the moment, but you will laugh later. (Usually. Maybe.)

Tips That Actually Help (from a Mom Who’s Been There)

Cheerful family of four at a bright airport terminal. Parents hold a baby and a toddler on their shoulders, while an older child stands in front with a suitcase.

1. Pack outfits in gallon Ziploc bags

Each bag = one full outfit (including socks and undies). Makes changes easy and keeps the suitcase from exploding everywhere.

2. Snacks are peace offerings

Bring double what you think you’ll need. Mix of healthy and familiar—fruit pouches, crackers, and a few “fun” ones like mini cookies.

3. Protect the nap

A girl toddler with curly hair sleeps peacefully in a car seat with a cow-print cover

Even if it means a drive-around nap or an extra-long stroller walk, guard the nap like your trip depends on it. Because it kinda does.

4. Lower the bar (and your schedule)

Don’t try to do five activities a day. Do one thing, enjoy it, and leave room for rest (or snack stops. Or diaper emergencies).

5. Take the pictures

Even if your toddler is grumpy or sticky or wearing mismatched socks. Take the photo. You’ll be glad you did.

The Bottom Line

A toddler with a teddy bear on his back looks out an airplane window

Traveling with toddlers is messy, unpredictable, and often exhausting. But it’s also full of wide-eyed wonder and sweet moments you’ll never forget.

And hey—if all else fails, there’s always coffee and cartoons.


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